Friday, April 9, 2010

Simple Shower

164 Paradise Valley, AZ, Picture Taken on Molokai, Niks Silver Efx, Framed, 4-9-10

We were gathered for a Bridal Shower for Kate Steider soon to be, Kate Fimbres. Following the co-hostess around her decadent home as she gave a tour, someone asked the simple question, "What does your husband do for a living?"

Her answer was sincere and direct..."He and I run a porn site. We are a monogamous couple who makes love for a camera and for fans of our site for 14 years straight". Huh? As my mind tried to unravel the words that came so effortlessly and easily from the mouth of this beautiful woman in this beautiful home.

I was overwhelming shocked, but mesmerized by her willingness to be so forthright with a very intimate revelation. This was a room full of "church" women who did not share my wide eyed, mouth agape, deer in the headlights response to her answer. Why? Because as one very wise friend of mine standing by my side pointed out, "We are not here to judge, but love unending". It was a simple shower with messages that poured like water from a spout, heavy and with great meaning. Love one another for all they are on the inside, not what they choose to do on the outside.

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