350 Scott & Phil, Taken 9-22-09, Santorini, Greece, Nikon D-80, automatic, 10-05-09Yes, I traveled back in time to retrieve this photo because today was a day to reflect on the buddies in our lives.
Have you seen the movie, "I love you man" in which the lead character sets out to find a man friend. The movie showcases the difficulty that men have in relating, opening up to and being close to another guy. Almost as if their DNA renders them incapable, but my theory is they don't practice being a friend. Practicing being a friend is as important as being one. Meaning you have to check in to check out the blessings of having a friend! Calling, texting, writing or setting lunch dates to stay connected.
Phil called me the other day and shared his thoughts. He told me I was important in his life and of value to him because of who I was and how we share similar faith walks. He asked about Scott and where he was. He talked about the church service he attended that morning and then reflected on our recent trip. Phil was in the moment. I loved that call and will cherish it because I know it was a rare gift from a brilliant man who was practicing being a "best" friend.
When you find the people you want to be close to and share your life's ups and downs with...Remember, practice makes perfect! Thank you Phil, if Scott had been home and received your words instead of me, I know he would have said, "I love you man"!
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